John Wenz from West Hartford, CT presented the PCA “Second-Goal” Parent Workshop to a small group of NYH parents at the Newton South Auditorium on December 1. John is passionate about the mission of PCA which emphasizes “Better athletes. Better people.” His presentation was full of pertinent facts and entertaining multi-media clearly demonstrating examples of productive versus unproductive means of parenting a youth athlete.
A key takeaway regarding the Better Athletes, Better People model was a framework to define youth sports roles:
- Youth Sports Leadership – shapes the culture of the organization
- Second-Goal Parent – emphasize teachable moments and help kids absorb the life lessons available through sports. Leave winning to the coaches
- Double-Goal Coach – emphasize both winning and life lessons
- Triple-Impact Competitors – work to better themself, their teammates, and the game
There was clear emphasis on player skills and character development over a win-at-all costs mentality at all levels with the intention of creating lifelong value in favor of a short-term “victory.”
NYH purchased several copies of the PCA book by Jim Thompson titled “Positive Sports Parenting – How ‘Second-Goal’ Parents Raise Winners in Life Through Sports.” It’s an easy read at about 60 pages and full of thought provoking information.
If you would like a copy of the book, please let Tom Dallaire know at TomDall@Verizon.net
Check out the PCA website.